When do you start your Search?
The search should begin as early in the pregnancy as possible. When you do a gynecological examination is the opportune time to decide if you are able to become pregnant. Hopefully, that will occur with a doctor with whom you feel comfortable.
But if the pregnancy was unexpected, or you have not found that great doctor with whom you feel comfortable, the earliest point of time is best. It is important for the baby’s sake. It has been discovered that women who receive care late in the pregnancy or have had no prenatal care at all tend to run a higher risk of infant mortality.
Finding a doctor may be a challenge. Some will immediately advise an abortion. Other doctors will become enthused by the challenges.
You need that doctor to know you well enough to understand the way the changes of pregnancy will affect you. Health issues unrelated to the disability you have will most likely need to be addressed early.
How to Find a Doctor
You could find the doctor via those with whom you trust. You may also get recommendations from the doctor who has been working with your disability.
Evaluating the Doctor’s Practice
The recommendations of friends with whom you trust can assist you in assessing the skills of the doctor. Or listening to the impressions of the patients the doctor has had in the past.
Sometimes there may be differing experiences; it’s in this instance that the opinion of an older and well-trusted doctor in the community may come in handy. There is no singular way to assess what doctor may work for you, other than knowing what you are looking for in the care administered by a doctor.
Check the office policies, by checking with the receptionist. You can ask about fees, for normal birth and caesarian section. Ask about payment and billing, insurance the doctor will accept. You will need to know what hospital the doctor is affiliated. Also check the doctor’s flexibility with requests, such as persons allowed to attend the birth, and whether the doctor will work with you on having a natural birth. Most importantly, check accessibility, if you are using a wheelchair…are the rooms and bathrooms set-up for your ease of use. The answers to these questions may narrow the choices of whom to visit.
You could ask for only a consult, rather than a visit with a full physical examination until you have decided upon which doctor you will use. Bring with you the father-to-be or an advocate. You then will have someone to share impressions and ideas with, or who would think of questions you may have not been able to think about in your nervousness.