Interviewing the Doctor
Here are some questions you may wish to ask:
What are the pros and cons of pregnancy for me?
If the doctor is opposed, ask why?
What do you know about my disability, and what access do you have regarding it?
Do you have experience with the pregnancy and delivery of babies with disabled women? How much?
In what way will you be working with my regular doctor?
If there are unusual symptoms that arise, who should I call if I am not sure if those symptoms are pregnancy or disability related?
How will labor and delivery be affected by my disability?
Will there be a need for treatments that differ from the usual types, due to my disability, and how will we get the cooperation of the hospital for those treatments?
Do you think I may need a caesarian section? Why? Would you set a date, or wait for labor to begin spontaneously?
Can I get a referral for genetic counseling?
The physical exam
Besides the questions suggested previously, the examination is also another time to decide on the doctor who will tend to your care. How the doctor behaves during the examination and time taken to let you know what he/she is doing in that exam will assist in your final decision.
Does the doctor ask you questions during the exam? Are you treated with sensitivety and consideration? Are the questions the doctor is asking relative to your level of sensation, mobility, and flexibility? Regarding your comfort?
The doctor’s partners
If the doctor has partners or a physician that they use when they are not available, you will need to schedule an appointment with them on one of your regular visits, as early as possible. See if they also are “on board” and will be responsive to your needs and care.
You will need to feel comfortable with any one of these doctors, in case they are the one in delivery with you. It would be much more comfortable to have a familiar face, and know if they also will support your needs.